FI know you’re juggling a lot as a youth pastor, because I’ve been there too. You’re not alone, and I hope what you find here encourages you.
Many teenagers see church as an obligation or a place their parents make them go. They might not understand what the church is or why it matters. I remember one student asking, “Why do we need church if I can listen to sermons online?” To help students see the church through a gospel lens, we need to paint a bigger picture than a Sunday schedule. Here’s how to invite them into the beauty and mission of the local church.
1. Teach That the Church Is God’s Plan, Not Just a Human Institution
Start by defining the church biblically. The church isn’t a building or a program; it’s the family of God, called and sent to make disciples. Show them Scriptures like Acts 2:42‑47 and Ephesians 2:19‑22 that describe believers gathering, worshiping, sharing life, and reaching out. Help them see that the church is both global and local, visible and invisible, and that they’re part of something much bigger than themselves.
2. Show That The Church Is A Family, Not Just A Gathering
Teenagers crave belonging. When students feel disconnected from church, it’s often because they haven’t experienced authentic community. Share stories of how the church has been your family—times when you’ve been encouraged, challenged, or cared for by other believers. Encourage students to invest in small groups where they can be known and where they can know others. Remind them that growth happens in community, not in isolation.
3. Invite Them Into Service
Church isn’t just a place to consume; it’s a place to contribute. Invite students to serve on Sundays—helping with children’s ministry, greeting, or running tech. Empower them to lead worship, teach younger kids, or organize service projects. Serving helps them discover their gifts and shows them that the church needs them. When teens realize they have a role to play, they stop asking, “Why do I have to go?” and start asking, “How can I help?”
4. Address Objections and Past Hurts
Some students resist church because they’ve been hurt by Christians or because they’ve seen hypocrisy. Create space for them to share those experiences. Apologize for ways the church has failed and talk about Jesus’ vision for His people. Show them that church isn’t perfect, but it’s still God’s plan A for discipleship and mission. Encourage forgiveness, honesty, and realistic expectations. When you listen to their objections, you earn the right to invite them back into community.
The Church Is a Family, and They Belong
The church is God’s design for discipleship, mission, and community. Help your students see that it’s not about programs but about people following Jesus together. Invite them into the story and give them a seat at the table. If you’re looking for curriculum that integrates teaching about the church into everyday lessons, explore our Small G, Base G, and Top G curriculum plans.
Check out One & Witnesses – Sermon series designed to help students embrace their role in the church.